With a little planning, there are lots of ways that you can have unexpected fun in the bedroom!
Spark your sexual senses
Get a massage, take a bubble bath, read a sexy story or watch an erotic film. Better yet, do it together.
Stash a sex kit under your bed
Fill it with your favourite toys, oils, reading material, movies, lubricants, condoms, and so on, for ready access.
Cosy and close together
Don’t be afraid to sit close, maybe even on his or her lap. Affection breeds intimacy, which, in turn, makes for better, hotter sex.
Think young … and hot!
Tonight, act like teenagers and make out on the couch, in the car or at the movies.
Love in an elevator
The next time you and your partner have an elevator to yourselves, make out like crazy, or at least until the doors open.
Share the great outdoors
There are many parks and trails that are wheelchair friendly. By being outdoors, not only are you stimulating your senses — but also your sexuality. Maybe you’ll even find a private spot to explore!
Say it with soap
Using a toothpick, engrave an invitation to a bubbly bath or a sexy shower on a bar of soap. Then leave the soap on the bathroom sink and wait for the RSVP.
Flex your flirting muscle
Tease your partner with a racy comment or a come-hither stare, even when a lovemaking session isn’t on the cards.
Stock up on aphrodisiacs
Make a special shopping trip for the food and drink that make you and your partner hot, then host an intimate tasting.
Happiness on a cracker?
Cheese, apples and almonds all contain phenylethylamine, a natural chemical that makes us feel good. So how about sharing a nice fruit-and-cheese platter tonight?
Elna McIntosh is a sexologist and has for the past 30 years helped couples and individuals to explore their sexuality “outside of the box”. Her greatest claim to fame – surviving breast cancer … twice.
email: disa@icon.co.za
