Your mom probably never told you this, but actually food and sex go hand in hand
It’s true: they are both sensual delights that activate our pleasure sensors. So why not put the best of both worlds together tonight?
Serving up a buffet in the bedroom requires a little creativity and an appetite for the unusual. Have fun with flavours. Why not try a little whipped cream on his chest and hot fudge on yours? You can mix things up with some salty olives or a juicy, sweet mango.
Include some beverages with your feast, too. Keep a cup of hot chocolate and a bottle of Champagne on ice next to the bed. The vastly different textures and temperatures of each drink will add to the overall sensory experience. Try taking a sip of one before kissing him, then take a sip of the other and let him taste the difference. The rush will be noticeable, whether you’re kissing his lips or a more imaginative spot.
And it doesn’t have to be all about your taste buds either – a few ice cubes can take a massage to the next level. Any finger food or edible delight will do; it all depends on your personal tastes. Just avoid inserting them into your vagina – people can have allergic reactions to the acids or ph levels in certain items, or they could increase the risk of infection. Clean him off before you have intercourse or better yet, hop in the shower together to keep the fun going. Bon appétit!
Elna McIntosh is a sexologist and has for the past 30 years helped couples and individuals to explore their sexuality “outside of the box”. Her greatest claim to fame – surviving breast cancer … twice.
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